Quotes by Gary Chapman

Gary Chapman

A child may be “spoiled” by a lack of training or by inappropriate love that gives or trains incorrectly.

Children

Giving

Training

Ask yourself: Does the action I am considering have any potential for dealing with the wrong and helping the relationship? And is it best for the person at whom I am angry? The two most constructive options are either to confront the person in a helpful way, or to consciously decide to overlook the matter.

Doe

Matter

Two

Before I discovered the concept of the 5 love languages, a bit of advice I was given was to become a student of my wife and to take time to learn what makes her feel loved. I soon learned that what makes her feel loved may not always be the thing I want to do because it may not come natural to me. But learning to love her in the way that makes her feel loved is a greater demonstration of my love for her, because I’ve chosen to do it with a goal of pleasing her.

Advice

Goal

Wife

Each person has the potential of making a positive impact on the world. It all depends on what you do with what you have. Success is not to be measured by the amount of money you possess or the position you attain but rather in how you use both. Position and money can be squandered or abused, but they can also be used to help others.

Helping Others

Impact

Use

Emotions are our spontaneous response to life. We have these emotions, but if the emotion is a negative emotion, then I have a choice to say, “I am feeling sad tonight because this happened, but I am not going to let my sadness keep me from engaging my wife in conversation. “

Choices

Sadness

Wife

Empathetic listening is an awesome medication for the hurting heart.

Heart

Hurt

Listening

Every single day in a marriage, we influence each other. It is a matter of am I going to have a positive influence or a negative influence?

Influence

Matter

Negative

Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is a commitment.

Commitment

Feelings

Positivity

Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is a commitment. It is a choice to show mercy, not to hold the offense up against the offender. Forgiveness is an expression of love.

Choices

Commitment

Expression

Gifts need not be expensive; after all, “it’s the thuoght that counts.” But I remind you, it is not the thought left in your head that counts; it is the gift that came out of the thought that communicates emotional love.

Communicate

Emotional

Needs

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Accepting

Advice

Affirming

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Average

Being True

Believe

Beloved

Book

Cake

Can't Change

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Choices

Christian

Commitment

Communicate

Couple

Courses

Cry

Decision

Demand

Deserve Love

Desire

Differences

Different

Difficult Situations

Disappointment

Doe

Doors

Dysfunctional Family

Emotional

Erase

Expression

Eye

Fall

Feelings

Forget

Forgiveness

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Goal

Good Relationship

Healing

Heart

Helping

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Quotes by Gary Chapman

Gary Chapman

A child may be “spoiled” by a lack of training or by inappropriate love that gives or trains incorrectly.

Emotions are our spontaneous response to life. We have these emotions, but if the emotion is a negative emotion, then I have a choice to say, “I am feeling sad tonight because this happened, but I am not going to let my sadness keep me from engaging my wife in conversation. “

Empathetic listening is an awesome medication for the hurting heart.

Every single day in a marriage, we influence each other. It is a matter of am I going to have a positive influence or a negative influence?

Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is a commitment.

Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is a commitment. It is a choice to show mercy, not to hold the offense up against the offender. Forgiveness is an expression of love.

Gifts need not be expensive; after all, “it’s the thuoght that counts.” But I remind you, it is not the thought left in your head that counts; it is the gift that came out of the thought that communicates emotional love.

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